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Elope in St Louis - Frequently Asked Questions by Carolyn Burke
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What is your price?
The Simple Elopement Package is based on distance from my home office.
The Deluxe Elopement Package includes officiant, flowers and a professional wedding photographer.
​We will discuss price over the phone.

How many guests can I have? 
An elopement is very, very small - up to 10 guests is ideal.
You can have more guests, but it is considered an intimate wedding and involves more planning on your part.
Pop-up Weddings are very popular and I perform them often. 

Do we need witnesses to get married?
In most cases : Missouri and in Illinois no witnesses are required - you can have a private ceremony!
To be certain, ask the Recorder of Deeds clerk when the two of you apply for a marriage license - just to be sure.

How soon can I book an elopement?
Based on availability and on a first-come, first-serve basis.
We must talk on the phone (314-669-4933) to check the date, time and location.
BOOKING ELOPEMENTS WITH 3-DAY ADVANCE NOTICE AND PAYMENT IS DUE UPFRONT
Click on these links for more resources.
Elope in Forest Park   |   Find A Venue for Your Elopement   |   How to Plan a Pop-Up Wedding

What if we don't have a location?
I have tons of resources, but I do not have my own location.
Here are a few ideas. I am happy to give you advice over the phone.
Elopement Locations  |  Pop Up or Off Beat  |  Pinterest Boards

What are the minimum requirements?
In Missouri, you must provide a Missouri Marriage License (issued from any MO county seat).
In Illinois, a Marriage License and a location in the same county as the license was issued.
The date, time, and location is finalized over the phone.
You can decide to have a LEGAL SIGNING ceremony where there is no ring or vows exchanged.

What happens once we get our Marriage License?
​Read this great article on my BLOG

Do you have images that I can look at?
Go to . . . Deluxe Elopement Couples  and  Happy Couples

Do you have any special deals or features?
If you come to Kirkwood, MO my fee is $75.
Due to the increase in inquires, payment must be made in advance and a 3-day advance notice is required.
See Elope in Kirkwood for more information.
I live in Kirkwood and can help you find a location such as a park or restaurant that will accommodate your style and capacity.
Fee may be higher for holidays** See below for a list of holidays. 

​Can we write our own vows?
Absolutely!  Here are the vows I use in a repeat after me  format.
[Name], today I take you in marriage.
To join and to share all that is to come.
Through the best and the worst, I will always be there.
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Is there a deposit to hold the date?  Do you have an agreement?
There is a retainer fee and a ceremony fee due BEFORE the event date.
You are required to fill out a Confirmation Form and I respond with an Email Confirmation.
The Email Confirmation is considered our agreement.
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What do you wear at the ceremony?
I usually wear a mask and a black pants outfit, but not a robe. I take off the mask when I perform the ceremony.

What happens if you become unavailable due to illness or conflict?
In the 15+ years of performing ceremonies, I have needed to find a substitute only a few times.
I provide a substitute to perform the same ceremony if the cancellation is last minute or you have the option to find someone else.

​**LIST OF HOLIDAYS
New Years Day, Valentine's Day, St. Patrick's Day, Mother's Day, Memorial Day Weekend, Labor Day Weekend, Halloween, Thanksgiving Weekend, Christmas Eve and Day, New Years Eve.

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